diff --git a/demo/gch/v4.js b/demo/gch/v4.js index 689f19c..9f08a94 100644 --- a/demo/gch/v4.js +++ b/demo/gch/v4.js @@ -185,5 +185,5 @@ } /* feed.js 首页默认不加载(index.html 只引了 topics.js),这里按需拉一次 */ if (window.GC_FEED) init(); - else { var fs = document.createElement('script'); fs.src = 'guangchang/feed.js?v=26110202'; fs.onload = fs.onerror = init; document.body.appendChild(fs); } + else { var fs = document.createElement('script'); fs.src = 'guangchang/feed.js?v=26110204'; fs.onload = fs.onerror = init; document.body.appendChild(fs); } })(); diff --git a/guangchang/data.js b/guangchang/data.js index f0aa931..5120b72 100644 --- a/guangchang/data.js +++ b/guangchang/data.js @@ -12,7 +12,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 22 周", "likes": 1286, "body": "查出怀孕那天,我在家庭群里发了张验孕棒的照片,本来想给大家一个惊喜,结果从那天起,我的手机就再没安静过。我妈早上七点准时打来,第一句永远是“起来了吗,早饭吃了没”。中午十二点半第二个,问午饭吃的什么,有没有青菜。晚上九点第三个,问今天胎动了没有,其实那时候我才九周,哪来的胎动。\n最让我哭笑不得的是,有一回晚上十点多我已经躺下了,手机又响了,一看是我爸。我爸平时话很少,接起来他憋了半天才说:“你妈让我问问,你今天是不是没喝牛奶。”原来我妈打第三个电话的时候我在洗澡没接,她不好意思再打,就把任务派给了我爸。\n那段时间我说实话是有点烦的。上班开会的时候手机震,挤地铁的时候手机震,吐得正难受的时候手机也震。有一次我没忍住,在电话里说了一句“妈你能不能别天天问了”,说完那边沉默了好几秒,她说“好好好,那你忙”,就挂了。\n挂完电话我坐在工位上,心里一下子特别不是滋味。我妈退休之后一个人在老家,我爸身体不太好,她每天的大事就是做饭、买菜、陪我爸散步。现在多了一件事,就是惦记我。她不会用那些孕期软件,也不懂什么叫NT什么叫糖耐,她能做的就是一遍一遍地问吃了没有。\n后来我换了个办法,每天中午吃饭的时候主动拍一张饭菜的照片发到群里,晚上睡前发一句“今天一切都好,睡啦”。没想到电话真的少了,我妈改成在群里回一个大拇指,偶尔补一句“青菜少了点”。我爸也学会了发表情包,虽然经常发错。\n现在我二十二周了,每天中午那张照片已经成了习惯。有时候忙忘了,我妈会在下午两点小心翼翼地发一句“今天吃饭了吧”。我看着那几个字,就觉得那些唠叨其实挺好的。", - "photo": "img/d9d596acde1f.jpg" + "photo": "img/c2807377d0dd.jpg" }, { "title": "婆婆天天念叨少看手机,我摸出了四句好用的接话", @@ -179,7 +179,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 743, "body": "我是那种从小就爱较真的人。怀孕以后,家里长辈说什么我都会先去查一查,查到没有依据的,就在心里给它打个叉。不能吃兔肉会豁嘴,打叉。不能剪头发,打叉。孕妇不能参加婚礼,打叉。那段时间我觉得自己特别理智,也有点看不上那些老说法。\n有一次我妈说,怀孕了别总坐着,多走动,饭后别马上躺下。我下意识就想反驳,后来一查,这条跟医生说的基本一致。又有一次外婆说,晚上别吃太多,七分饱就行,不然夜里睡不好。我问了产检医生,医生说孕晚期少食多餐确实能减轻胃部不适。\n我开始意识到,老经验不是一刀切的。里面有一部分确实是迷信,有一部分是在没有医学条件的年代,人们为了保护孕妇想出来的办法,换了个说法,但核心是让你别累着、别摔着、别乱吃。比如不让孕妇去人多的地方,放在过去是怕冲撞,放在今天看,其实也是怕挤着碰着、怕传染病。\n想通了这一点,我对长辈的态度就软了很多。以前听到不合理的说法,我会直接说“这是迷信”。现在我会先想一想,这句话背后担心的是什么。担心我摔跤,那我就注意走路慢一点;担心我吃坏肚子,那我就吃得干净一点。说法我不一定照搬,心意我接下来。\n真正碰到会影响健康的,比如有亲戚让我喝什么偏方汤药,我还是会坚持问医生,不会随便吃。这一条我不会让步,也会认真跟家里人说清楚。\n现在宝宝两个月了,外婆又开始讲坐月子的老规矩。我没有再急着打叉,而是一条一条听,听完挑能做的做,不能做的笑着说“我问问医生”。外婆说我怀了一次孕,人都变柔和了。", - "photo": "img/b58c7d7c5d94.jpg" + "photo": "img/1b872fa2e2f6.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -281,7 +281,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 24 周", "likes": 1680, "body": "上个月表姐结婚,我挺着五个多月的肚子去喝喜酒。刚落座,隔壁桌的表姑就端着杯子过来了,上下打量了我一圈,说:“哟,肚子尖尖的,肯定是个小子,你婆婆该高兴了。”一桌人都笑了,有人跟着附和,有人说不对,看脸色像女孩。\n我当时也跟着笑,说生男生女都一样。可那顿饭后面吃了什么,我真记不太清了。脑子里一直在转表姑那句话,“你婆婆该高兴了”。我婆婆从来没在我面前说过想要男孩还是女孩,可这句话让我忍不住去想,她心里是不是有偏好,如果是女孩她会不会失望。\n回到家我洗完澡,侧着身子站在镜子前看了足足十分钟,一会儿觉得尖,一会儿觉得圆,还偷偷搜了半天“肚子尖是男孩吗”。搜出来的东西五花八门,有说准的,有说不准的,越看越乱。老公进来问我在干嘛,我有点不好意思,就把表姑的话跟他说了。\n他听完愣了一下,然后笑着说,你想多了,我妈前两天还跟我说想要个小孙女,给她买小裙子。我半信半疑,第二天吃饭的时候假装随口问婆婆,喜欢男孩还是女孩。婆婆说:“都行,健康就好,不过要是女孩我就能给她扎辫子了。”\n那一刻我心里那块石头落了地,也有点哭笑不得。表姑那句话可能她自己转头就忘了,我却琢磨了整整一个晚上,还把自己弄得紧张兮兮的。后来产检的时候我问了医生,医生说肚子的形状跟胎位、孕妈体型都有关系,看不出男女。\n现在再有人说我肚子尖还是圆,我就笑笑说“等出来就知道啦”。别人随口的一句话,不一定代表什么,真正在意的人在身边,问一句就清楚了。", - "photo": "img/ed263579a24d.jpg" + "photo": "img/c1aeeff8c596.jpg" }, { "title": "亲戚见面就说我胖了,我提前备好三句笑着回的话", @@ -301,7 +301,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 35 周", "likes": 612, "body": "我一直是个心思重的人。上学时同学一句玩笑,我能想一个星期;上班后领导随口一句评价,我能惦记好几天。怀孕之后,我本以为自己会更敏感,结果发现,还真跟我想的不太一样。\n孕早期的时候,确实特别容易被别人的话影响。舅妈说我气色不好,我就忍不住多想;堂嫂说她怀孕时从来不吐,我就怀疑自己是不是太娇气。那段时间我每天都在琢磨这些话,情绪起起伏伏,有一次产检时我顺口跟医生说了说。医生说孕期情绪敏感很常见,让我有不舒服就说出来,别一个人憋着。\n真正让我变化的是孕中期第一次感受到胎动。那天我坐在沙发上,肚子里像是有条小鱼轻轻吐了个泡泡。我一动不动地等着,过了一会儿又来了一下。那一刻我突然觉得,我的注意力应该放在这里,而不是放在别人说了什么上。\n后来再听到让我不舒服的话,我会在心里问自己一句:“这句话对我和宝宝有用吗?”有用的,比如别人提醒我走路慢一点、天冷加衣服,我就记下来。没用的,比如评价我的长相、猜男女、比较谁怀得更辛苦,我就让它过去。说起来简单,做起来也没那么容易,但练多了,真的会好一些。\n我也开始理解,很多亲戚说话就是习惯性的,见面总得聊点什么,孕妇的肚子是最现成的话题。他们说完就忘了,只有我把那些话一遍遍翻出来,累的是我自己。\n现在我三十五周了,再过不久宝宝就要出来了。我想以后他也会听到很多别人的评价,我希望能先学会不被这些话牵着走,等他长大了,再把这个本事慢慢教给他。", - "photo": "img/abeb3dd7b050.jpg" + "photo": "img/9ba3cdf3551c.jpg" }, { "title": "才11周姑妈就说我肚子尖是儿子,我琢磨了一下午", @@ -433,7 +433,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 4 个月", "likes": 868, "body": "结婚之前,我妈就提醒过我,两个家庭过日子,习惯不一样很正常,要有心理准备。我当时没太在意,觉得我们小两口过自己的就好。真正感受到差别,是在怀孕以后。\n我家是那种什么事都摊开说的家庭,有矛盾当场讲,讲完就翻篇。婆家正好相反,大家都很客气,有什么不满意不会直接说,要靠猜。怀孕初期,婆婆送来一大袋自己腌的咸菜,我因为孕吐吃不了,就跟她说“妈,我最近吃不了咸的”。我觉得这是很正常的一句话,结果婆婆好几天没怎么跟我说话。\n后来老公告诉我,他妈觉得我是嫌弃她的东西。我特别委屈,觉得自己明明是实话实说。老公跟我解释,在他们家,直接拒绝别人送的东西会让人很没面子,一般会先收下,说声谢谢,过段时间再说吃不了。\n那件事之后,我开始留意两家的不同。我妈心直口快,有时候说话会让婆婆不舒服;婆婆心思细腻,会默默把很多事做好不说出来。我爸喜欢热闹,过节要一大家子聚;公公喜欢清静,节假日想在家待着。这些不同说不上谁对谁错,就是不一样。\n慢慢地,我学会了在两种习惯之间切换。跟我妈说话直来直去,跟婆婆说话多加一句“谢谢妈”“辛苦了”。我也会在中间帮忙传话,把婆婆没说出口的心意告诉我妈,把我妈的直爽解释给婆婆听。\n宝宝出生后,两家人轮流来帮忙。我妈来的时候家里热热闹闹,婆婆来的时候家里井井有条。有一次我累得在沙发上睡着了,醒来看到两个妈妈一个在厨房做饭,一个抱着宝宝在阳台晒太阳。我突然觉得,两个家庭的习惯不同,也意味着我背后多了一份底气。", - 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"photo": "img/24e6a5c06dde.jpg" + "photo": "img/339f8402eb41.jpg" }, { "title": "被亲戚问几个月了,我反问一句听来好多家族故事", @@ -1058,7 +1058,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 6 个月", "likes": 786, "body": "我是个有点内向的人,从小就不太会走亲戚。怀孕以后更是这样,一想到过年要面对那么多人,被问各种问题,我就提前好几天开始犯嘀咕,还想过要不要找个理由不回去。\n去年春节,我孕七个月,最后还是回了老家。一进门,果然被一群亲戚围住了。第一个问的是我小姨,问我几个月了,我说七个月,然后就不知道该说什么了,气氛有点尴尬。\n这时候小姨说:“七个月啦,我怀你表妹的时候,七个月正好赶上发大水,挺着肚子蹚水去外婆家。”我一下子来了兴趣,问她后来呢。她就开始讲那时候的事,讲得绘声绘色,旁边几个阿姨也加进来,你一言我一语,说起各自怀孕时的趣事。\n那个下午,我听到了好多以前从没听过的家族故事。外婆生我妈的时候在田里,表舅妈怀孕时爱吃酸的吃到牙都倒了,我妈怀我的时候半夜想吃馄饨,我爸骑车跑了大半个城。我坐在中间,不知不觉就不紧张了,还跟着笑。\n那天之后,我开始换个角度看那些问题。亲戚们问我几个月、男孩女孩、在哪生,很多时候不是真的要一个答案,只是想找个话题跟我聊聊。他们见我一年一次,不知道该说什么,肚子就是最自然的开场白。如果我只回答问题,对话就断了;如果我顺着问一句“您那时候呢”,往往就能听到很多故事。\n当然,也不是所有问题都让人舒服,碰到太私人的,我还是会笑着带过。但整体来说,那个春节比我预想的好太多了。现在宝宝六个月了,今年过年又要回去,我竟然有点期待,想听听大家讲讲带孩子的故事。", - "photo": "img/3a3e866988a4.jpg" + "photo": "img/63aa2e5c5823.jpg" }, { "title": "国庆回老家刚显怀,七大姑八大姨围着我的肚子猜男女", @@ -1068,7 +1068,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 18 周", "likes": 1863, "body": "今年国庆是怀孕后第一次回老家,那时候刚好十八周,肚子不大不小,穿件宽松卫衣能遮住,一坐下就藏不住了。我妈提前在电话里打预防针:“到时候你几个姑姑肯定要看肚子的,你别嫌烦。”\n果然,到家第二天中午摆了两桌,饭还没上齐,大姑就坐到我旁边,伸手比划:“你看这肚子尖尖的,八成是儿子。”二姑马上接话:“我看是圆的,闺女!”小姑更绝,让我站起来转一圈,说要看后背。我端着一碗汤,站也不是坐也不是。\n说实话一开始有点不自在,但我出门前跟老公商量好了几句话,那天全用上了:\n1. 被问男孩女孩:“我们俩都想要个健康的,到时候生出来第一个告诉你们。”\n2. 被要求摸肚子:笑着拉过对方的手放上来,说“它这会儿正睡觉呢,轻一点”,大家反而都变得很温柔。\n3. 被催多吃:“我自己记着呢,吃多了医生要说我的。”把医生搬出来,长辈一般都会点头。\n最后那顿饭吃得很热闹,几个姑姑从猜男女聊到她们当年怀孕的事,说那时候哪有什么产检,全靠自己感觉。大姑说怀我表哥时一直想吃酸菜,半夜起来偷吃一整碗,全桌笑成一片。\n走的时候,二姑偷偷塞给我一个红包,说给宝宝买件衣服。回城的路上我摸着肚子想,被围着看其实也是一种被惦记,换个心态,就成了很好玩的回忆。", - "photo": "img/2e9a560ef614.jpg" + "photo": "img/cf9d822439ce.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -1185,7 +1185,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 3 个月", "likes": 654, "body": "说出来有点不好意思,怀孕的时候,我心里一直有个小本子,偷偷给我妈和婆婆的关心打分。我妈今天打了三个电话,加分;婆婆今天没问我感受,减分;我妈给我寄了一箱水果,加分;婆婆说我胖了,减分。这个本子从来没写在纸上,却一直在我心里记着。\n那时候我总觉得,婆婆的关心不如我妈的真诚。我妈是从心里疼我,婆婆更多是因为我怀着她的孙子。这个想法让我对婆婆一直有点距离,她对我好,我也会下意识地想,她是为了宝宝。\n直到我生产那天,这个想法才被彻底打破。我是半夜开始宫缩的,老公开车送我去医院,婆婆跟着一起去了。在待产室外面,她一直坐在走廊的椅子上,一夜没合眼。护士后来跟我说,那位阿姨每隔一会儿就来问一次产妇怎么样了,问的是我,不是孩子。\n宝宝出生后,我被推出产房,第一眼看到的是婆婆。她没有先去看宝宝,而是走到我床边,握着我的手说:“辛苦了,孩子,辛苦了。”她的手冰凉,眼睛红红的。我那一刻突然觉得,我心里那个打分的小本子,好像一直都记错了。\n后来我慢慢想明白,我妈的关心是从小到大的,是血缘里带出来的,自然又直接。婆婆的关心是从我嫁进来开始一点点攒起来的,需要时间,也需要我愿意去看见。两种关心的味道不一样,但都是真心的,不该放在一起比较。\n现在宝宝三个月了,两个妈妈轮流来帮忙。我妈来的时候我会撒娇,婆婆来的时候我会多陪她聊聊天。那个打分的小本子,我已经很久没有翻过了。", - "photo": "img/141634fb2074.jpg" + "photo": "img/37d1726dbded.jpg" }, { "title": "孕吐刚好点,娘家的酸豆角和婆婆的鸡汤同一天到了", @@ -1215,7 +1215,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 37 周", "likes": 2186, "body": "37 周产检那天,医生说宝宝入盆了,让我注意观察。我在家庭群里随口说了一句,第二天晚上我妈就到了,拎着两个大编织袋,从火车站一路倒地铁过来,进门第一句是:“我票都改好了,住到你出月子再走。”\n打开袋子我都愣了:自家晒的小米、红枣、两罐她熬的猪油,还有一沓旧棉布,说是拆了我小时候的床单,洗了七八遍,给宝宝当隔尿垫最软。最底下压着一个红包,写着“给外孙的第一份零花钱”。\n说实话,一开始我还担心她住不惯。我们家小,她只能睡书房的折叠床;我和老公平时作息晚,她六点就起来了。头两天她在厨房里找不到东西,转来转去,我在旁边看着也有点着急。\n后来我们三个坐下来简单分了一下:\n1. 她管早饭和午饭,晚饭老公下班回来做,她歇着。\n2. 厨房常用的东西我贴了小纸条,她不用每次都问。\n3. 她想出去转转,就去楼下公园,我给她手机里存好了回家的定位。\n这一周下来,家里的节奏慢慢顺了。早上我起床,桌上已经有一碗小米粥和一个剥好的鸡蛋;下午她陪我在小区里慢慢走两圈,一边走一边讲我出生那天的事,说我爸当时紧张得把鞋穿反了。\n昨晚我靠在她肩膀上看电视,她摸着我的肚子说:“快了,快见面了。”那一刻我心里特别踏实。原来不管长多大,要当妈妈的时候,最想要的还是自己的妈妈在身边。", - "photo": "img/fd7c4c5f9d0c.jpg" + "photo": "img/ba0d1f6f6171.jpg" }, { "title": "婆婆不会用微信转账,就每天给我寄一箱土鸡蛋", @@ -1595,7 +1595,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 30 周", "likes": 2391, "body": "我老公是典型的理工男,人很好,就是情商有时候不在线。我孕期情绪起伏大,经常前一秒好好的后一秒就低落,他特别怕,一看我脸色不对就开始紧张,越紧张越说错话。\n有一次我因为体重涨太快难受,他想安慰我,说:“没事,生完就瘦了,实在不行去健身。”我听完更难受了,脸一下子拉了下来。他也有点委屈,说他是好心。我知道他是好心,可就是听着难受。\n后来我们坐下来认真聊了一次,想了几个小办法,用到现在挺管用:\n1. 定了三个暗号。我说“我需要树洞”,意思是你只要听,不要给建议;说“我需要军师”,就是真的想让他帮我想办法;说“我需要抱抱”,那就什么都别说,抱着就行。他说这样他就不用猜了,压力小很多。\n2. 他可以问,不用硬猜。我跟他说,看我不对劲可以直接问“你现在需要哪个”,问错了也没关系,总比说错话强。\n3. 我情绪过去以后,会告诉他刚才哪句话让我舒服了。比如有次他就说了句“我知道你很辛苦”,我后来专门跟他说,这句特别好。他还拿手机记了下来,我看到备注写着“有效语句”,笑得不行。\n4. 不在情绪最高点讨论问题。真要谈什么事,等我平静下来再说,他也不会被我的情绪弄懵。\n用了一个多月,他现在已经能自己判断了。上周我产检回来有点低落,进门还没说话,他就过来抱住我,说“看你这个脸应该是要抱抱”。\n其实男人不一定是不愿意接,是真的不知道怎么接。给他一个说明书,他会比你想的学得快。", - "photo": "img/506ad7ba6092.jpg" + "photo": "img/18ab7277a63a.jpg" }, { "title": "那晚他一路埋头查手机,后来我才知道他也紧张", @@ -1605,7 +1605,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 942, "body": "现在宝宝两个多月了,回头想孕期那段时间,我对老公最大的误会,是觉得他太淡定。\n孕三十四周有天晚上,我觉得肚子一阵阵发紧,心里没底,打电话问了医院,护士让我过去看看。去的路上我一直念叨,他坐在旁边一句话没说,就盯着手机查东西。我当时心里有点不是滋味,想他怎么能这么平静,连句安慰都没有。\n到了医院,医生检查完说一切正常,让我回家多休息、注意观察。回家路上我还在闹小情绪,没怎么理他。到家他去洗澡,我拿他手机想看个时间,屏幕一亮,是他在车上查的页面:肚子发紧怎么办、去哪个门诊、要带什么证件。还有一条是给他妈发的消息,说“妈我有点紧张”。\n我拿着手机坐在床边,半天没动。他在车上不是冷淡,是太紧张了,又不想在我面前表现出来,只能埋头查资料,好让自己帮上点忙。\n他洗完澡出来,我把手机递给他,说:“原来你也紧张啊。”他挠挠头笑了,说他当时脑子一片空白,怕说错话让我更慌,觉得多查一点就能多帮一点。\n那天以后我对他的沉默有了不一样的理解。我们俩都在担心,只是他的担心是安静的,我的担心是说出来的。我也跟他说,下次紧张可以直接告诉我,两个人一起商量总比各自憋着好。\n他现在会说了,宝宝半夜哼唧,他会直接喊“老婆你来看一下,我拿不准”。听起来有点好笑,但我觉得挺好的,至少我知道我们是一边的。", - "photo": "img/bc1738ca1e67.jpg" + "photo": "img/c6f0e7e29d85.jpg" }, { "title": "他不太会说暖心话,但每天早上都给我切好姜片", @@ -1625,7 +1625,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 12 周", "likes": 2213, "body": "做NT那天我特别紧张,前一晚做了一堆功课。老公请了半天假陪我去,一路上一直在念叨“没事没事”,可他自己手心全是汗。\n躺上检查床,医生在我肚子上来回滑了好几分钟,然后笑着说:“宝宝趴着睡觉呢,脸朝下,测不了。你们出去走走,吃点东西,二十分钟以后再来。”\n我一下子就慌了,下床的时候脑子里全是“是不是有什么问题”。老公扶着我出来,憋了半天,说了一句:“这小子随我,起床气大。”我没忍住笑出声来,紧绷的那根弦一下子松了。\n接着他就开始执行“让宝宝翻身计划”。先跑去小卖部买了一盒牛奶和一个面包,看着我吃完。然后拉着我去爬楼梯,说网上说多走动宝宝会动。我们俩从一楼爬到三楼,再慢慢走下来,一共爬了三趟。他一边爬一边给肚子里的宝宝讲冷笑话:“小朋友,你再不翻身,爸爸就要被你妈嫌弃了。”路过的护士都在笑。\n他确实不太会安慰人,从头到尾没说过一句漂亮话。但那二十分钟里他一直牵着我的手,一直在想办法逗我,我能感觉到他在努力。\n回到检查室再躺上去,宝宝真的翻过来了,小手还在晃,医生很快就测好了,说一切正常。出了门老公长舒一口气,说:“我刚才比你还紧张。”\n回家的路上,他在手机备忘录里写了一行字:“下次产检,提前买好牛奶。”我偷偷看到了,没说破。", - "photo": "img/47c411905dac.jpg" + "photo": "img/453b276b0029.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -1752,7 +1752,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 39 周", "likes": 2475, "body": "39 周以后,晚上睡觉成了一件技术活。肚子太大,左边躺一会儿腰酸,右边躺一会儿腿麻,翻个身都得先撑着坐起来再慢慢挪。那天夜里两点多,我又一次撑着坐起来,旁边的老公迷迷糊糊地问:“又睡不着啦?”\n我说没事你睡吧。他却直接坐起来,把床头灯调到最暗,往我腰后面塞了个枕头,说:“那咱俩聊会儿天,聊困了就睡。”\n聊什么呢?他说,名字还没定呢。我们之前列过一个单子,十几个候选,一直没下决心。那天晚上,我们就一个一个地念,念完再想象一下:以后老师在班上点名会怎么叫,同学会给他起什么外号,写在作业本上好不好看。\n有个名字他特别喜欢,我说笔画太多,以后考试写名字要多花半分钟。他笑得不行,说你想得也太远了。还有一个我喜欢的,他念了两遍,突然发现跟他小时候同桌的名字一模一样,我俩笑到我肚子都一紧一紧的,赶紧停下来缓了缓。\n聊着聊着,窗外天开始发白,最后我们把范围缩小到两个,约好等宝宝出生,看了他的样子再定。\n那天早上我其实没怎么睡,但精神特别好。后来几个晚上,只要我坐起来,他都会醒,有时候帮我揉揉小腿,有时候就陪我说几句话。他嘴笨,平时不会说什么好听的,但半夜那盏昏黄的小灯,让我觉得等待的日子一点都不难熬。", - 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"photo": "img/5621aec7f755.jpg" + "photo": "img/92b6ec2a3125.jpg" }, { "title": "以前总想当个不麻烦人的孕妇,现在学会开口了", @@ -2098,7 +2098,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 29 周", "likes": 2034, "body": "怀孕以后,我和老公的聊天记录基本变成了这样:明天产检几点、这个月房贷交了吗、你妈说要寄东西来、宝宝的小床到了没。翻了一个月的聊天记录,没有一句跟我们俩有关的。\n有天晚上躺在床上,我问他:“你还记得我们上次单纯聊天是什么时候吗?”他想了半天,说不记得了。两个人都沉默了。\n后来我们商量着做了一些小改变,没什么大动作,但感觉确实不一样了:\n1. 每周三晚上是约会时间。不出远门,可能就是楼下散步、去附近的小馆子吃碗面,或者在家关了灯看一部老电影。规矩是这一个小时不聊产检、不聊钱、不聊宝宝的东西。一开始很难,聊着聊着就拐回去了,后来慢慢习惯了,又能聊回以前那些有的没的。\n2. 琐碎的事集中处理。我们建了一个共享清单,产检、采购、要办的手续都往里扔,周日晚上一起过一遍,平时就不在微信上一条条问了。聊天记录终于又有了一些表情包。\n3. 偶尔做点以前的事。我们刚恋爱的时候喜欢去江边吹风,前几天天气好,他提议再去一次。我挺着肚子走不了太远,就坐在台阶上吹了半小时风,吃了一个烤红薯,回来路上他牵着我的手,跟以前一样。\n4. 给彼此留小纸条。这个是他发起的,有天我早上起来看到冰箱上贴了张便签,写着“今天也很漂亮”。我回了一张“今天也很帅”。后来就一直贴着玩,冰箱门快贴满了。\n琐碎是绕不过去的,宝宝来了只会更多。但我们说好了,再忙也要给两个人留一点点地方,哪怕只是一张便签。", - "photo": "img/79baf41d2566.jpg" + "photo": "img/4b7455dec472.jpg" }, { "title": "一起给宝宝扣连体衣还扣错了,我俩笑了好半天", @@ -2382,7 +2382,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 7 周", "likes": 2845, "body": "孕七周去做第一次B超,前一晚我有点睡不着,老公比我还上心,把挂号单、身份证、医保卡检查了三遍,还特意请了半天假陪我。\n躺在检查床上,医生拿着探头在我肚子上滑来滑去,屏幕上黑乎乎一片,我完全看不懂。过了一会儿医生说:“看,这里是孕囊,里面有胎芽,胎心也看到了。”我顺着她手指的地方看过去,是一个小小的圈,中间一个更小的亮点在一闪一闪。\n那一刻说不清是什么感觉,就觉得它是真的在那里了。之前验孕棒、抽血单都只是纸上的字,这次是我亲眼看到的一个小家伙。\n出了检查室,老公在门口等着,我把B超单递给他。他捧着那张纸看了半天,问我哪个是宝宝。我指给他看,他凑近又凑远,最后说:“好像一颗小豆子。”说完我俩就站在走廊里傻笑,旁边排队的姐妹也被我们逗乐了。\n回家路上他把B超单拍了照,设成了手机壁纸,还给宝宝起了个小名叫豆豆。晚上他认真地跟我说,以后每次产检他都尽量陪我去,想亲眼看着豆豆一点点长大。\n第一次B超不用太紧张,听医生安排就好。记得带上之前的检查单,穿宽松方便的衣服。最重要的是叫上另一半,那一刻值得两个人一起分享。", - 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"photo": "img/638d75e3f7ca.jpg" + "photo": "img/170b2cad740c.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -2616,7 +2616,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 22 周", "likes": 1270, "body": "怀孕之后我发现,自己在单位变成了一个特别会「算」的人。哪句话能说,跟谁说,什么时候说,都要在心里过好几遍。后来我慢慢摸出了一点办法,记下来给同样纠结的姐妹参考。\n1. 先跟一个信得过的同事说。我第一个告诉的是同组一个已经当妈的前辈。她没有大惊小怪,只是把我的工位跟她换了一下,她那边离茶水间远,没有咖啡味。有一个人知道,心里就松了一大截。\n2. 跟领导说的时候,带着方案去。我提前把手上的工作列了一张表,哪些我能继续跟,哪些可能需要有人搭把手,产检大概多久一次。领导看完说:「你想得挺周全的。」那次谈话比我预想的顺利很多。\n3. 不舒服的时候,说事实,不说情绪。比如「我下午有点头晕,想早半小时走,剩下的晚上在家补」,而不是「我好难受啊撑不住了」。前者让对方好安排,后者我自己说完也会后悔。\n4. 有些话可以不说。比如对未来的担心、对产后回不回岗的犹豫,在没想清楚之前,我选择只跟老公和妈妈聊。单位里不是所有事都需要交代清楚。\n5. 实在说不出口的,写下来。有一次我想跟领导提出暂时不出差,当面开不了口,就写了一封很短的邮件,语气平和,说明原因。第二天她回我:「收到,这段时间先让小周去。」\n这些办法不一定适合每个人,但对我来说,最重要的是别让自己一直憋着。说出来之后,大部分时候对方比我想象中更能理解。", - "photo": "img/f53a5b99ebc0.jpg" + "photo": "img/4a879bfb8c20.jpg" }, { "title": "以前在单位从不求人,怀孕后学会了说「帮我一下」", @@ -2626,7 +2626,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 2315, "body": "我是那种在单位很少求人的人。加班到十点不抱怨,周末接电话不拒绝,别人眼里的「靠谱」,有一半是我咬着牙撑出来的。\n怀孕之后,这套习惯第一次不灵了。孕早期下午三点准时犯困,眼皮重得抬不起来;孕中期腰开始酸,坐一个小时就得站起来走走。可我还是不好意思说,总觉得一开口就是在给别人添麻烦。\n转折是孕 25 周的一个下午。部门要搬一批资料去楼下档案室,大家都在搬箱子,我也弯腰去抱。旁边的男同事一把接过去,说:「你别动,这个我来。」我脸一下就红了,下意识说「没事没事,不重」。他看了我一眼:「你这时候逞什么强。」\n那天晚上我在床上想了很久。我发现自己一直害怕的,其实不是别人觉得我麻烦,而是怕自己变得「不行了」。好像只要说出一句「我需要帮忙」,之前攒下来的那些靠谱就会一下子清零。\n后来我开始试着开口。打印机卡纸让实习生帮我弄一下,下午犯困就跟搭档说我去楼道走五分钟,产检那天提前一周把会挪开。没有人因此看轻我,反而有同事说:「你早该这样了。」\n现在宝宝两个月,我在家休产假,偶尔会想起那段日子。怀孕没有让我变得更弱,它只是让我第一次看清,原来我以前一直绷得那么紧。\n等回去上班,我想把这个习惯带回去。不是每件事都要自己扛,能说出口,也是一种本事。", - 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"photo": "img/657bd5779003.jpg" + "photo": "img/de364ef85902.jpg" }, { "title": "同事的热心多到接不住?我攒了五句好用的回应", @@ -3289,7 +3289,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 30 周", "likes": 1322, "body": "怀孕之后,我收到了很多来自同事的关心,大部分让我很温暖,也有一些让我有点为难。比如被追问男孩女孩,被劝早点休假回家养着,被摸肚子,被各种偏方轮番推荐。慢慢地我总结出几种回应方式,既不伤和气,也能守住自己的边界。\n1. 隐私问题,笑着带过。有人问我是男孩还是女孩,我就说「还不知道呢,健康就好」。问我打算生几个,我说「先把这个养好再说」。不正面回答,也不让人尴尬。\n2. 不想被摸肚子,提前挡一下。有同事伸手过来,我会侧身笑着说「他今天有点闹,别把他吵醒啦」。对方一般都会笑着把手收回去。\n3. 各种偏方和建议,先谢后不接。「谢谢你,我回去问问医生」,这句话几乎万能。既表达了感谢,又说明了我会以医生的意见为准。\n4. 关于工作安排的建议,交给自己判断。有同事劝我别那么拼,早点休假;也有人说孕妇多动动好。我都会说「谢谢,我会根据自己的情况来」,然后该怎么做还怎么做。\n5. 真正帮到我的,要好好道谢。给我让座的、帮我搬东西的、主动替我跑腿的,我会记在心里,找机会请他们喝杯饮料,或者在他们忙的时候搭把手。\n这些回应方式说起来简单,刚开始用的时候我也会有点别扭。但练习几次之后,就自然多了。别人的关心是好意,我的边界也很重要,两者其实可以兼顾。", - "photo": "img/0fbffd2c5d7b.jpg" + "photo": "img/9f3b4dba8b5e.jpg" }, { "title": "老大姐织的一双小袜子,现在穿在我女儿脚上", @@ -3319,7 +3319,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 19 周", "likes": 1978, "body": "我们组一共八个人,我怀孕的事之前只告诉了领导和坐我旁边的同事。孕早期穿宽松衬衫加外套,一直没人看出来。直到十九周的某个周一,天突然降温,我随手套了一件修身的针织毛衣就出门了。\n进办公室刚坐下,对面的男同事抬头看了我一眼,又看了一眼,憋了半天问:“你……最近是不是胖了点?”旁边的大姐一巴掌拍他肩膀上:“胖什么胖,人家是有了!”全组瞬间安静,然后炸开了锅。\n接下来一整天,我的工位变成了热门景点。实习生小妹跑来问能不能摸一下,组长默默把我的工位椅换成了带腰靠的那把,大姐从抽屉里拿出一个靠枕塞给我,说是她当年怀孕时用的,一直没舍得扔。\n最好笑的是那个问我胖没胖的男同事,下午偷偷在我桌上放了一盒牛奶和一张便利贴,写着“对不起,祝宝宝健康”,字写得歪歪扭扭的。\n从那天起,组里多了几个小习惯:开会时大家会把靠近门口的位置留给我,方便我随时去洗手间;下午三点总有人喊我起来走走;订外卖时会顺手问一句“你这个能吃吗”。\n本来还担心公开以后会被特殊对待,结果收到的全是暖暖的小关心。那件修身毛衣我后来又穿了好几次,每次都有人冲我的肚子打招呼。", - "photo": "img/108283e94a86.jpg" + "photo": "img/53bca6aed696.jpg" }, { "title": "休产假前同事给我搞了个小惊喜,抽屉里塞满祝福卡", @@ -3421,7 +3421,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 25 周", "likes": 1748, "body": "上个月部门来了一个新同事,二十五六岁,名校毕业,被安排在我隔壁的工位。领导介绍她的时候说:「小林之后会跟着你学一段时间。」我笑着跟她打招呼,心里却咯噔了一下。\n她确实很优秀,学东西快,做事利落,问问题总能问到点子上。第一周我带她熟悉业务,第二周她已经能独立处理一些简单的单子了。领导开会时表扬了她两次。\n那段时间有几个晚上,我侧躺着摸着肚子,脑子里转的是工作上的事:我休产假的那几个月,她会接手我的客户吧?等我回来,客户还熟悉我吗?\n有一次中午吃饭,小林问我:「姐,你休产假的时候,那几个大客户要不要我先跟着熟悉一下?」我愣了一下,说好啊。回到工位,我想了想,决定还是找领导聊聊。\n我跟领导聊了一次,没绕弯子,直接问她对我产假前后的工作有什么安排。她说得很坦诚:小林是来补充团队的,不是来替代谁的,我休假期间需要有人顶上,等我回来,客户还是由我主要负责。\n听完这番话,我心里踏实了很多。\n现在我和小林相处得挺好,我把能教的都教给她,她也真心叫我一声师父。带一个靠谱的徒弟,我休假也安心。以后的事,等回来再一起商量。", - "photo": "img/9320f245d904.jpg" + "photo": "img/4f3ee7186428.jpg" }, { "title": "为了产后顺利回岗,孕期我提前做了这五件事", @@ -3431,7 +3431,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 32 周", "likes": 2276, "body": "怀孕之后,我一直在想一个问题:生完孩子,我还能不能回到现在的岗位?与其想来想去,不如提前做点准备。孕期我悄悄做了这几件事,不一定有用,但至少让我心里踏实了一些。\n1. 把自己的工作整理成文档。我负责的业务流程、客户情况、常见问题和处理方法,都写成了一份详细的文档。既方便休假期间别人接手,也让领导看到我手里的东西有多少。\n2. 和领导坦诚聊一次。孕 28 周左右,我约领导聊了一次,问清楚产假期间工作怎么安排,回来以后大概是什么岗位。领导给的答复不一定是承诺,但至少我心里有了个底。\n3. 去 HR 那里问清楚政策。产假怎么算、休假期间待遇如何、回岗有什么流程,我都问得清清楚楚,也查了当地的相关规定。知道流程是怎样的,心里就有数。\n4. 维护好关键的人际关系。几个重要客户我提前打了招呼,告诉他们休假期间谁来对接,回来后还是我。和几个同事也约好,休假期间如果有什么重要变化,可以给我透个风。\n5. 保持学习,不让自己落后。孕期身体允许的时候,我会看看行业资讯,听几节线上课程。不是为了卷,只是不想休完假回来,发现自己什么都跟不上了。另外,想清楚自己产后想要的节奏。比如能不能接受出差、希望几点下班,提前想好,回去沟通时就不会手忙脚乱。\n这些准备做完,我对产后回岗这件事,从一开始的心里没底变成了现在的踏实。该做的都做了,剩下的就交给时间。", - 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"photo": "img/0a2a87cfd56b.jpg" + "photo": "img/cf9253836cf2.jpg" }, { "title": "交接项目提前一个月准备,最后一天还写了小卡片", @@ -3568,7 +3568,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 1 个月", "likes": 1245, "body": "项目交接完的第二周,我开始休产假。刚开始那几天,我每天都会下意识地打开工作群,看看项目进展到哪了。看到同事们讨论得热火朝天,问题一个个被解决,心里说不出是什么滋味。\n按理说,项目推进顺利,我应该高兴才对。可我心里却有一点点失落,甚至还有一点不愿意承认的酸。原来少了我,一切照样转得很好。\n有一天,接手的同事给我发消息,问一个历史数据在哪里能找到。我回得特别快,还顺手把相关的几个文件都发给了他。他说谢谢,我说不客气有事随时问。放下手机,我发现自己居然有点开心。\n那一刻我突然明白,我心里那份说不出的滋味,其实是害怕不再被需要。\n工作这些年,我一直习惯当那个被依赖的人。项目上的事大家都来问我,出了问题第一个想到我。这种被需要的感觉,是我在职场上很重要的安全感。交出项目,就像是把这份安全感也交了出去。\n想明白这一点之后,我反而释然了一些。被需要是一种很好的感觉,但它不应该是我全部的价值来源。何况现在,有一个小家伙比任何项目都更需要我,半夜醒来哭着找我,饿了只认我。\n现在宝宝一个月了,我已经很少打开工作群了。偶尔看一眼,也只是单纯地关心一下老朋友们过得怎么样。等我回去,也许会有新的项目,新的开始。", - "photo": "img/9abf0a8331d9.jpg" + "photo": "img/1b5118139eff.jpg" }, { "title": "最后一天上班,把交接文档改到第五版才交出去", @@ -3690,7 +3690,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 1406, "body": "我一直以为,边界是一次性划好的。只要在怀孕初期跟领导说清楚,哪些能做哪些不能做,后面就照着执行就行了。后来发现完全不是这样。\n孕早期,我的边界是「不闻油烟、不久坐会议室」。那时候孕吐厉害,别的都还好。孕中期,身体舒服了很多,我反而开始主动多揽活,晚上偶尔加个班也不觉得累,边界一下子放宽了。\n到了孕晚期,情况又变了。肚子越来越大,坐久了腰疼,走多了腿肿,晚上睡不好,白天容易犯困。孕中期能做的那些事,现在一件件都变得吃力。我不得不重新跟领导沟通,把一些工作分出去,把加班彻底停掉。\n那段时间我有点沮丧。感觉自己在一点点退让,从一开始什么都能扛,到后来连一个下午的会都坐不住。\n有一次跟一个已经当了妈妈的同事聊起来,她说:「边界本来就不是固定的,你的身体每个月都在变,边界当然也要跟着变。」\n这句话让我想通了很多。边界不是一条划死的线,而是一个随时可以调整的范围。身体状态好的时候,可以多做一点;状态不好的时候,就往回收一收。这不是退让,是跟着自己的身体走。\n现在宝宝两个月了,我偶尔会想,等回去上班,我又会面临新的边界问题:什么时候背奶、能不能准时下班接孩子、出差怎么安排。我已经不害怕了。边界本来就是一边退一边守出来的,找到当下最舒服的那个位置就好。", - "photo": "img/04e9458112d5.jpg" + "photo": "img/c68515e4c5e1.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -3904,7 +3904,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 21 周", "likes": 1862, "body": "怀孕之前我以为难受就是吐,吐完就好了。真到自己身上才知道,难受是一整串的,而且每一样单拎出来都不算大事,说出来总像在矫情。\n早孕那阵子是恶心,过了三个月不怎么吐了,又换成烧心。晚饭稍微多吃一口,躺下就觉得胸口有一团火往上顶,只能垫两个枕头半靠着睡。接着是鼻塞,不感冒也塞,晚上张着嘴呼吸,早上起来嗓子干得冒烟。刷牙的时候牙龈还会出点血,第一次看见有点意外。半夜小腿再抽一下筋,把我抽醒,坐起来扳一扳脚才缓过来。\n有天在公司,同事问我脸色怎么这么差,我说昨晚又没睡好,烧心加鼻塞加腿抽筋。她笑了一下说:「怀孕嘛,都这样,忍忍就过去了。」她是好心,我却一下不知道怎么接。回家跟我妈讲,她说她当年怀我的时候照样下地干活。我有点小委屈,后来想想,大家只是不知道这些小毛病凑在一起有多磨人。\n后来产检的时候,我把这些零碎的不舒服一条条记在手机备忘录里,拿给医生看。医生很耐心,一样样问了频率和程度,告诉我哪些是孕期常见的、平时可以怎么缓解,又交代说如果出现持续腹痛、出血或者头晕眼花,要马上来医院,别拖。那天从诊室出来,我心里松了好大一口气,不是因为难受消失了,而是终于有人把它当回事。\n现在我不太强求别人懂了。老公是真愿意听的,我就跟他细说,他会半夜爬起来帮我揉小腿,第二天早上还记得问一句昨晚抽了几回。别人客气问起,我就笑笑说一句还行。难受是真的,不用每个人都理解,有一两个人接得住就够了。", - "photo": "img/67fa7494e33b.jpg" + "photo": "img/63659dd16d92.jpg" }, { "title": "和老公约了个暗号「今天电量低」,从此少解释", @@ -3914,7 +3914,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 24 周", "likes": 1325, "body": "我是那种一难受就不想说话的人,偏偏孕期的难受又特别难描述。比如那种说不上来的闷,坐着不对躺着也不对,老公问我哪里不舒服,我只能说「就是不舒服」,他一脸茫然,我也说不清。来回几次,两个人都有点无奈。后来慢慢摸索出几个办法,在这里分享一下。\n1. 用具体的词代替「难受」。我会说「胃里像有东西往上顶」「腰像被人往下拽」「脚肿得鞋子穿不进」。说得越具体,家人越知道怎么帮。老公听到腰酸就去拿靠垫,听到烧心就把晚饭的盘子换成小碗,让我一顿分成两顿吃。\n2. 每天花两分钟记一下。手机里建了个备忘录,写日期、哪里不舒服、大概什么时候、做了什么之后好一点。产检时直接翻给医生看,比临场回忆靠谱得多。有一次医生看到我连着几天写了头疼,专门给我量了血压,叮嘱我以后再这样就及时来医院,不要等到下次产检。\n3. 跟家里人提前约好暗号。我跟老公说好,我说「今天电量低」,就是身体很累,不需要追问原因,帮我把家务接过去就行。这个办法让我少解释了很多次,也少了好多误会。\n4. 拿不准的就问医生,不去网上对号入座。有段时间我搜症状搜到半夜,越看越乱。后来干脆给自己定了规矩:拿不准就记下来等产检问,或者打医院的咨询电话;突然加重、出血、肚子一阵阵发紧的,直接去医院。\n这些办法不能让难受消失,但它让我从一个人闷着,变成了家里人一起扛。我老公现在下班进门第一句就是:「今天电量多少?」我说百分之三十,他就默默去厨房洗碗。听到那句话的时候,我就觉得日子没那么难熬了。", - "photo": "img/dce5971923fa.jpg" + "photo": "img/fdd8b90ee89a.jpg" }, { "title": "以前觉得表姐怀孕娇气,轮到自己才懂她的安静", @@ -3924,7 +3924,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 4 个月", "likes": 2417, "body": "我表姐怀孕那年,我还在读大学。过年回家,她总是窝在沙发角落,饭桌上也吃不了几口,亲戚们背后小声说她太娇气,说谁不是这么过来的。我当时也跟着这么想,心里还嘀咕:怀个孕而已,至于吗。\n后来轮到我自己。孕早期每天睁眼就是一阵恶心,挤地铁闻到别人的早餐味,只能下车蹲在站台缓一会儿,常常因此迟到。孕晚期腰疼到翻身都要抓着床沿,一晚上醒好几次去厕所,白天开会眼皮直打架。最难的是这些感受我没办法跟人讲清楚,说出来像在抱怨,别人也看不见,只看得见我一天比一天大的肚子。\n有一天晚上,我给表姐发消息:「姐,我好像终于懂你当年了。」她回了一串笑哭的表情,然后说:「那时候我也不知道怎么讲,干脆就不讲了。」我看着这句话,鼻子一下就酸了。原来她那些沉默不是娇气,是累到不想再解释。\n现在宝宝四个月了,回头看那段时间,我最大的变化是对别人的难受多了一点耐心。单位新来的同事怀孕了,午休时我会把靠窗那张能躺的椅子让给她,她说想吐我就陪她去走廊透透气,不会说「忍忍就好」。我也会跟她说,有不舒服别憋着,该跟医生说的就跟医生说,该请假就请假,身体比那点全勤要紧。\n孕期的难受很私人,别人确实很难完全感同身受,我自己也是经历过才明白。但我想至少可以做到一点:不去评判。哪怕说不清楚,也值得被好好对待。今年过年见到表姐,我想当面跟她说一声,当年对不起。", - "photo": "img/8852d9172e16.jpg" + "photo": "img/df39cd497b00.jpg" }, { "title": "孕吐最凶那几天,一碗白粥配咸菜救了我", @@ -3954,7 +3954,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 11 周", "likes": 2468, "body": "我是六周开始吐的,最厉害的时候是八九周,早上起床吐、刷牙吐、闻到油烟吐,整个人都蔫了,话都不想说。现在十一周,感觉在慢慢好转,把这段时间对我有用的办法整理一下,给正在吐的姐妹参考。先说一句,每个人情况不一样,吐得厉害一定要去医院看医生。\n1. 床头放点小零食。早上睁眼先别急着起床,吃两片饼干或者几颗坚果,躺几分钟再慢慢起来。空着肚子起床,我十次有八次要吐。\n2. 少食多餐。一顿吃太多反而容易吐,我改成一天吃五六顿,每顿吃个半饱,饿了就吃一点。3. 换个牙膏和牙刷。我刷牙特别容易恶心,后来换了儿童牙刷,刷头小一点,牙膏换成味道淡的,好了很多。\n4. 远离厨房。这段时间做饭全交给老公,我闻到炒菜的味道就不行,干脆躲进房间关上门。5. 吃点凉一点的东西。热菜的味道比较冲,我发现常温或者稍微凉一点的饭菜反而吃得下去,比如凉拌菜、酸奶。\n6. 多休息。累的时候吐得更厉害,我每天中午都会睡一觉,晚上也尽量早点躺下,窝在沙发上捧一杯温水小口喝,胃里会舒服一点。\n除了这些,心态也挺重要的。医生说孕吐大多数到孕中期就会慢慢缓解,让我别太紧张。我就每天给自己打打气,想着再熬几周就好了。现在真的有在变好,早上不吐了,能好好吃顿饭了。姐妹们,坚持住,会好起来的。", - "photo": "img/0f7731a0edc5.jpg" + "photo": "img/cf4e6bce33cb.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -4198,7 +4198,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 22 周", "likes": 2734, "body": "那天其实没什么特别的,产检刚做完,一切都挺好。晚上洗完澡躺下,想着睡前随便看看,就点开了一个讲孕期注意事项的视频。看完一个,下面推荐了另一个,再一个,越刷越偏,最后刷到一篇很长的分享,讲的是别人孕期遇到的一些特殊情况。\n我一个字一个字看完了,看完之后有点睡不着,脑子里开始对号入座:白天那一下肚子发紧是不是不对?我又去搜里面提到的词,越搜越多,好像每一条都跟我有点关系。老公睡得很熟,我不想吵醒他,就一个人翻来覆去,到后半夜才睡着。\n第二天中午,我还是有点放不下,就给产检医院的咨询台打了个电话。接电话的护士听我讲完,很平静地问了我几个问题,然后说:「你现在描述的情况都挺正常的,别人的情况不一定适合拿来套自己。如果真有出血、腹痛或者胎动明显不对,第一时间来医院,别在网上查。」\n挂了电话,我在楼梯间站了一会儿,忍不住笑了。我那一晚的紧张,几乎全部来自一篇陌生人的文章,而不是我自己身体真实的状况。\n后来我做了三个小改变:\n1. 睡前一小时不看孕产内容,改看综艺或者跟朋友聊天。\n2. 有疑问先记下来,攒着产检时问医生。\n3. 晚上心里有事就叫醒老公,哪怕只说两句话。\n老公知道这件事以后,说下次一定要叫他。现在我睡前刷到相关内容会直接划走,心里默念一句:别人的故事值得尊重,但它不是我的剧本。我的剧本,是按时产检、好好吃饭、好好睡觉。", - "photo": "img/c20651a7fd3c.jpg" + "photo": "img/15397c17240a.jpg" }, { "title": "给自己定了五条刷手机规矩,晚上睡得踏实多了", @@ -4208,7 +4208,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 27 周", "likes": 1593, "body": "孕早期我是个信息收集狂,收藏夹里塞满了各种孕期知识、产检攻略、育儿经验,觉得多看一点就多一分安全。结果到孕中期,我发现自己越看越紧张,一点小变化都能联想出一大串,晚上也睡不踏实。老公说我像在备考,每天都在刷题。后来我给自己立了几条规矩,坚持了两个多月,效果挺明显的。\n1. 睡前一小时不看孕产内容。这是最有用的一条。晚上人本来就容易想得多,现在睡前我只看点轻松的综艺或者跟朋友聊天,手机放到够不着的地方充电。\n2. 只关注少数几个靠谱的来源。我把关注列表清理了一遍,留下医院官方的科普号和产检时医生推荐的资料,其他的博主、讨论帖大部分取关了。信息少了,反而不会被互相矛盾的说法搞晕。\n3. 有疑问先写下来,攒着问医生。以前遇到一个问题我会立刻去搜,搜出十种答案。现在先记在备忘录里,产检时一起问,医生结合我的情况回答,比网上那些泛泛的说法靠谱得多。身体真有异常的,就直接去医院,不在网上找答案。\n4. 看到让我不舒服的内容就划走,不点进评论区。评论区说法五花八门,看多了容易越看越乱,我现在一律不看。\n5. 每天留一段不看手机的时间。我会出门散步一会儿,或者跟宝宝说说话,感受一下肚子里的动静。真实的身体感受比屏幕里的信息更让我安心。\n这些规矩不是要把自己和信息隔绝开,而是给自己留一点喘气的空间。现在偶尔还是会有点紧张,但已经不会被一条推送带着想一整晚了,睡得踏实多了。", - "photo": "img/5d86831d46e8.jpg" + "photo": "img/1833a2b04c6f.jpg" }, { "title": "看了几百篇攻略,最后最靠谱的还是我的产检医生", @@ -4218,7 +4218,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 1987, "body": "整个孕期我大概看了几百篇育儿和孕产内容,现在宝宝两个月了,回头想想,真正帮到我的没几篇,倒是让我纠结的不少。\n孕中期有一阵,我同时在看好几个博主,有人说这个要吃,有人说千万别吃;有人说这样睡最好,有人说那样睡才安全。我每天都在这些说法里来回摇摆,连吃顿饭都要先查一查。有次产检,我掏出手机,把自己攒的二十多个问题一条条念给医生听,有一半是「网上说……是真的吗」。医生听完笑了一下,说:「你这些问题,大部分是别人的情况。我们看看你自己的。」\n那次她花了不少时间,翻着我的检查结果,一条条告诉我哪些不用担心,哪些需要注意,哪些情况出现了要马上来医院。说完她又补了一句:「网上的东西可以看,但别拿来给自己下结论。」我出了诊室,坐在走廊长椅上发了好一会儿呆,感觉压在身上好久的东西轻了一点。\n从那以后,我对信息的态度变了。不是完全不看,而是知道它们只能当参考。别人的经验来自别人的身体、别人的医院、别人的情况,未必适合我。我自己身体的状况,只有定期给我做检查的医生最清楚。\n我开始把注意力放回自己身上:按时产检,把真实的疑问带给医生,不舒服就及时去医院,其余时间好好吃饭、好好睡觉。孕晚期的时候,再刷到让人紧张的内容,我已经能比较平静了,看一眼,知道那不是我,就划过去。\n现在带娃也是一样,遇到拿不准的事,我先问社区医生和儿保医生,再决定要不要去网上找补充。少了很多不必要的纠结,也多了一点对自己的信任。", - "photo": "img/faedf6c24a6c.jpg" + "photo": "img/24587157e4b6.jpg" }, { "title": "第一次抽血查HCG,医生一句话让我不再半夜搜数字", @@ -4482,7 +4482,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 34 周", "likes": 2563, "body": "孕三十多周的一天早上,我洗完澡站在镜子前,第一次认真地、从头到脚地看了看自己。脸圆了一圈,胳膊粗了,肚子高高地鼓起来,肚皮上有几道浅浅的纹路,脚踝也肿着。我盯着看了很久,有点陌生,又有点难过。\n那段时间,我刻意避开拍照。朋友聚会大家合影,我总是躲到后排,或者找个借口去洗手间。老公想给我拍孕照,我也一直推。翻出怀孕前的照片,看着那个瘦瘦的自己,心里五味杂陈,好像丢了什么东西。\n后来有一次产检做完,医生说宝宝长得不错,各项指标都挺好。回家路上我摸着肚子,突然想到,我身上多出来的这些,并不是凭空来的。宝宝在长,我的身体也在为了ta一点点变化,撑大的皮肤、变粗的腰、圆起来的脸,都是它在默默做的准备。这么一想,镜子里那个人好像没那么陌生了。\n我开始做一些小小的改变。买了两件宽松好看的衣服,不再硬塞进以前的牛仔裤里。答应老公去公园拍了一组照片,阳光很好,照片里的我笑得挺开心,肚子圆圆的,看着居然有点可爱。洗完澡给肚皮抹点润肤的东西,顺便跟宝宝说说话。\n我也不是从此就完全接受了。偶尔看到镜子,还是会有一瞬间的失落,想念以前的身体。但我不再逼自己赶紧变回去,也不再躲着镜头。这个身体正在做一件很了不起的事,我想先好好陪着它走完这一程。", - "photo": "img/47bb8caa1d60.jpg" + "photo": "img/d4c6183fc071.jpg" }, { "title": "胃口回来一周涨了三斤,我拿小本子记了一个月慢慢稳住了", @@ -4589,7 +4589,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 32 周", "likes": 2981, "body": "我家宝宝平时很活泼,尤其是吃完饭和晚上躺下的时候,在肚子里拳打脚踢,老公隔着肚皮都能摸到。我也习惯了每天跟着这个节奏过日子,ta一动我就知道ta在。\n那天是个周六下午,我午睡起来,突然意识到好像有一阵子没感觉到动静了。一开始我没太当回事,想着可能ta也在睡觉。吃了点东西,侧躺下来,手放在肚子上安静地等,等了一会儿,感觉好像有,又好像没有,跟平时那种很明显的动完全不一样。\n心一下子就提起来了。我想起产检时医生反复交代过的话:胎动跟平时比明显减少或者突然变得异常频繁,都不要在家等,及时来医院。我叫醒老公,说我们去趟医院吧。他什么也没问,拿上产检本就去开车。路上我一直把手贴在肚子上,脑子里乱七八糟的。\n到了医院,医生给我做了胎心监护。听到那熟悉的咚咚声响起来的时候,我眼泪一下就掉下来了。监护做了一段时间,医生看了结果说目前没问题,宝宝可能刚好在睡觉,也可能我前面注意力不集中没感觉到。她又跟我说:「你来得对,觉得不对劲就来,不要觉得麻烦,也不要不好意思。」\n回家的路上,宝宝在肚子里狠狠踢了我一脚,好像在说「我在呢」。我笑着摸了摸肚子,老公说:「虚惊一场也值。」\n我写这个不是想让大家紧张,只是想说,自己觉得不对劲的时候,别犹豫,也别自己在网上查,去医院让医生看一眼,心才能真正放下来。", - "photo": "img/966b55aa24e3.jpg" + "photo": "img/1bff7a1aad8e.jpg" }, { "title": "数胎动别跟别人家宝宝比,医生教的方法真管用", @@ -4599,7 +4599,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 30 周", "likes": 1687, "body": "刚开始能清楚感觉到胎动的那阵子,我特别兴奋,也特别紧张。一会儿觉得ta动得太多了,一会儿又觉得今天怎么这么安静,时不时就要停下来摸摸肚子,上班也心不在焉。网上看到别人说的各种数法和标准,跟自己一对比更慌。后来产检的时候专门问了医生,按她说的调整了一下,心里安定了很多。分享几条我的做法,具体怎么数还是要以自己的产检医生说的为准。\n1. 按医生教的方法,固定时间留意。医生让我每天找相对固定的时段,安静地侧躺或者坐着,专心感受一会儿。不用一整天都盯着,这样既能留意到变化,也不会让自己时时刻刻都绷着。\n2. 记住自己宝宝的规律。每个宝宝都不一样,有的爱在早上动,有的晚上最欢。我用一个小本子记了一段时间,大概知道了我家这位什么时候活跃、什么时候安静。医生说,最重要的是跟ta自己平时比。\n3. 不跟别人家的宝宝比。闺蜜家宝宝动得特别厉害,我家的比较温和,一开始我很担心,问了医生,她说只要符合宝宝自己的规律、产检情况正常就好,不用拿别人当标准。\n4. 觉得不对劲就去医院,不等。医生特别强调,如果感觉胎动比平时明显变少、或者突然异常频繁,不要在家里反复数、反复等,直接去医院做检查。\n5. 把留意胎动当成跟宝宝相处的时间。我会在那段时间放点轻音乐,或者跟ta说说话,讲讲今天发生了什么。\n这样坚持下来,我不再动不动就紧张,反而很享受每天这一小段专属的时光。", - "photo": "img/fba0aa35ada9.jpg" + "photo": "img/2f65d8e24dd2.jpg" }, { "title": "窝在沙发上第一次感觉到胎动,才觉得ta是真的在", @@ -4609,7 +4609,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 25 周", "likes": 2214, "body": "怀孕前几个月,我其实一直没什么实感。验孕棒上的两道杠、B超单上的小黑点、产检时听到的胎心,都让我高兴,但总觉得隔着一层,好像在看别人的故事。我甚至偷偷担心过,自己是不是不够爱这个孩子,怎么别人都那么激动,我却这么平静。\n第一次清楚感觉到胎动,是一个很普通的晚上。我躺在沙发上看电视,肚子里突然轻轻地「咕噜」了一下,像小鱼吐了个泡泡。我愣住了,不敢动,过了一会儿,又是一下。我抓着老公的手按在肚子上,他什么也没摸到,一脸着急,我却笑出了眼泪。\n从那以后,胎动越来越明显。有时候是轻轻的一下,有时候像在翻跟头,有时候我拍拍肚子,ta好像会回应似的踢一脚。我开始每天跟ta说话,早上说「早呀」,晚上说「今天辛苦了」。老公也加入进来,每晚贴着肚子给ta讲两句很无聊的工作上的事。\n当然也有胡思乱想的时候。有几天ta动得没那么欢,我就忍不住担心。我把这些都记下来,产检的时候问医生,医生说宝宝也有自己的作息,让我按她教的方法留意,有明显变化就及时去医院。问过之后,我就不再自己吓自己了。\n现在每次感觉到ta在动,我都会停下手里的事,把手放上去待一会儿。那种感觉很难形容,像是隔着一层肚皮,有一个小小的人在跟我打招呼。我终于明白,那份担心其实早就藏着爱了,只是需要一点时间才慢慢冒出来。", - "photo": "img/3fe32acb2ecf.jpg" + "photo": "img/cb4a45a4e497.jpg" }, { "title": "原来第一次胎动真的像小鱼吐泡泡,我在被窝里等了它半小时", @@ -4629,7 +4629,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 38 周", "likes": 1874, "body": "从孕中期开始,医生就让我每天留意胎动。到了足月,我把这件事变成了一个固定的小仪式:每天晚饭后半小时,我和宝宝的专属时间。\n我的做法很简单,都是产检时问过医生的:\n1. 吃完饭休息一会儿,找个舒服的姿势,侧躺或者靠在沙发上。\n2. 手放在肚子上,安安静静地感受,有动静就在本子上画一笔。\n3. 记下大概的规律,跟平时比一比,感觉明显不一样就及时联系医院。\n足月以后,宝宝空间小了,动作不像以前那样大幅度翻滚,更多是顶一下、拱一下,偶尔一只小脚丫在肚皮上滑过去。医生说这时候重点不是动作大小,是规律有没有变化。\n数着数着,我发现他有自己的小习惯。我一吃甜的,他动得就特别欢;老公凑过来说话,他好像会安静一下,然后突然踢一脚。有一次老公把手放在我肚子右边,等了好久都没动静,刚一拿开,那边就“咚”了一下,把我们俩都逗乐了。\n每天这半小时,是我一天中最安静的时候。不看手机,不想别的,就专心陪他。本子已经记了好几页,上面画满了小正字,旁边偶尔写一句“今天特别调皮”“今天在打嗝”。\n等他出生以后,我打算把这本小本子留着。这是我们还没见面时,每天都在进行的小对话。", - "photo": "img/4fe782a45bc0.jpg" + "photo": "img/375e5c744bb4.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -4736,7 +4736,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 2 个月", "likes": 1849, "body": "我是因为自身情况,孕晚期跟医生沟通后定下了剖宫产的。具体原因每个人都不同,就不展开了。写下来只是记录我自己的经历,不代表别人也会这样。决定之后,我反而紧张了好一阵。总有人跟我说「剖的不用疼,挺好」,听多了心里有点别扭,好像我这条路就是轻松的。其实对我来说,提前知道日子,意味着要一天天看着它靠近,那种心情也不好受。\n术前那几天,我按医生交代的做准备:按时去做检查,听护士讲术前要注意什么、几点开始不能吃喝,回家把待产包又检查了一遍。我还做了几件让自己安心的小事。\n1. 把想问的问题列下来,在术前谈话的时候一条条问清楚,包括术后大概会是什么感觉、什么时候能下床。\n2. 跟老公和家人分好工,谁陪床、谁照顾宝宝、谁送饭,提前说好,避免到时候手忙脚乱。\n3. 跟自己说,害怕是正常的。进手术室前我手一直在抖,麻醉医生跟我聊天,问我宝宝名字起好没有,我一下子就没那么紧张了。\n术后第一周,是我觉得最辛苦的一段。伤口疼,翻身、下床、咳嗽都要小心,第一次在护士扶着下地走的时候,每一步都像踩在棉花上。护士一直鼓励我,说按医生的要求慢慢活动,有利于恢复。那几天老公几乎没合眼,帮我擦身、扶我上厕所、半夜抱宝宝给我喂。\n现在两个月过去,伤口慢慢长好了,按医生的要求去做了复查。每条路都有它的辛苦,我的也一样。", - "photo": "img/d21d32dadc72.jpg" + "photo": "img/0e44111c90dc.jpg" }, { "title": "生产时临时改了方案,我花了几个月才真正放下", @@ -4746,7 +4746,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "宝宝 7 个月", "likes": 2672, "body": "整个孕期,我对生产这件事有一个很具体的想象。我看了很多资料,上了孕妇课,每天散步、练呼吸,心里早早给自己画好了一张图。结果那天,产程进行到一半,因为情况有变化,医生跟我和老公谈话,建议改变方式。医生讲得很清楚,我们签了字,后面一切都很顺利,宝宝平安出生。\n按理说,母子平安就是最好的结果。可是出院以后很长一段时间,我心里都有个疙瘩。别人问起「你是怎么生的」,我会下意识地多解释几句,好像需要证明自己已经尽力了。夜里喂奶的时候,脑子里会反复回放那天的细节,想是不是我哪里没做好,是不是我不够坚持。\n有一次产后复查,我忍不住跟医生说了这些。医生听完很认真地说:「当时的决定是根据你和宝宝的情况做的,不是因为你做得不好。」她还说,很多妈妈都会有类似的感受,如果情绪一直走不出来,影响睡觉吃饭,可以去寻求专业的帮助。\n那句话我记了很久。我慢慢开始明白,我放不下的不是生产方式本身,而是那张我自己画好的图。我把它当成了一场考试,觉得没按计划走就是没考好。可生孩子从来就不是考试,那天所有人,包括我自己,都是在为了我和宝宝的平安在努力。\n现在宝宝七个月了,会笑会翻身,每天黏着我。那个疙瘩没有完全消失,偶尔还会想起,但已经不疼了。如果有姐妹也有类似的感受,想说一句:不管经历了什么样的过程,你都已经很了不起了。", - "photo": "img/e8cb9b3e307a.jpg" + "photo": "img/a9997e36e9c1.jpg" }, { "title": "上了一堂产房体验课,顺产这件事没那么神秘了", @@ -4766,7 +4766,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 38 周", "likes": 1688, "body": "我家宝宝从孕中期开始就一直横着躺,到了 36 周还是没转过来。产检时医生跟我详细沟通了情况,建议到时候计划剖宫产,并帮我约好了入院的日子。\n刚听到的时候,我心里还有点打鼓,因为之前一直想着顺产,也买了好多顺产相关的书。回家后我跟两个剖宫产的朋友聊了聊,又在下一次产检时把想问的问题列好,一条条请教医生,心里慢慢就有底了。\n我按医生和护士的叮嘱,做了这些准备:\n1. 提前了解入院流程和术前要求,比如什么时候开始禁食禁水,都按医院说的来。\n2. 待产包里加了一条透气的高腰内裤,朋友说术后穿着更舒服。\n3. 跟老公和我妈商量好住院那几天的分工,谁陪床、谁回家做饭。\n4. 跟医生确认术后多久可以下床活动,提前让家人知道怎么扶我。\n朋友还跟我分享了她的经历:手术本身很快,医生和麻醉师一直在跟她说话;宝宝抱过来贴在她脸边的那一刻,她觉得一切都值得。她说术后头几天要多听护士的,慢慢起来走走,恢复得会更好。\n现在离入院还有几天,我把要带的东西又核对了一遍。老公说,不管是顺产还是剖宫产,都是迎接宝宝的方式,我们只要听医生的就好。\n我想想也是,宝宝选了一个他舒服的姿势,那我们就用最适合他的方式见面吧。", - "photo": "img/b19d98039e60.jpg" + "photo": "img/9116772c0b5d.jpg" } ], "comments": [ @@ -4868,7 +4868,7 @@ window.GC_DATA = { "stage": "孕 36 周", "likes": 1563, "body": "我从孕中期开始,就时不时会想到生孩子这件事,然后心里一紧。说不上来具体怕什么,就是有点紧张,越说不清越容易多想。后来我试了一些方法,虽然没有让紧张完全消失,但心里松快了不少。分享给同样会怕的姐妹。\n1. 把怕的东西写下来。我拿了张纸,把自己能想到的害怕一条条写出来:怕疼、怕时间太长、怕不懂流程、怕在陌生人面前不好意思、怕生完带不好孩子。写完我发现,原来那一大团说不清的紧张,其实是好几件具体的事,具体的事就可以一件件去了解。\n2. 去上医院的孕妇课。课上护士讲了生产大概是什么样的过程,医院有哪些应对疼痛的办法,什么情况需要马上来医院。知道了大概会发生什么,未知的部分少了,紧张也就少了。\n3. 把问题带给医生。我把纸上的担心挑了几条,产检时问医生。医生很耐心,一条条讲了医院会怎么安排。听完我明白,那天不是我一个人在面对,旁边有一整个专业的团队。\n4. 跟老公分享,而不是一个人憋着。我们一起看了医院的待产流程,一起收拾待产包,他还去学了怎么帮我按腰。两个人一起准备,让我觉得有个依靠。\n5. 了解够了就停下。我发现看太多别人的生产经历,尤其是那些特别戏剧化的,反而容易多想。所以我给自己划了条线,基本流程了解清楚就够了,剩下的交给医生。\n6. 情绪低落别憋着。有一阵我连着几天睡不太好,就跟医生说了,医生很耐心地跟我聊了聊,也告诉我医院有可以求助的地方。\n现在离预产期很近了,我还是会有一点紧张,但心里多了一份底气,甚至有点期待见到宝宝了。", - 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